Do you think its irresponsible for a couple living in a 2 up 2 small house and plan to have another child? they already had a child and have difficulty supporting one person. Is it even fair to the new child? this isn't my situation through just a situation of a friend who im consurned about. Thank you for your opinion
I pray you, is it you wish to move Buckingham Palace.
not your place to judge. mind your own business. I grew up with two brothers and my parents and a dog in an apartment 2 bedrooms. And he was a loving caring home. I didn't realize when he was drunk until now that I look back. love and family values are not on the mortgage and cars and gardens Bollox! Its about love and family values, period.
Yes it's not really fair on the children if the aid is not really the first correctly less than find another job
Its their decision. If they want another child, it is theirs.
If someone is having a baby, you should be happy and support them ..
I lived in a house like that, there were two of us, besides there were three (kids I mean)
His love which mattered: the family next door have been more pleased as we were and there were several of them we then and they were mixed (boys and two girls, we were two girls)
If it were me, I would be one more. I was an only child for 8 years and it sucks! When I was a sister, she was too young for that we can go and be close friends. Not only that, you're never ready to have a child when he comes. Someone is always short of money, the environment attached, emotionally attached, etc. It can only improve!
who are u 2 judge
Life brings changes.
Example - a rule I do not think it's fair to bring a child into the world knowing that the habit of father - who said many things happen. My own ex-husband now lives in another country!
They could have a 6 bedroom house and be able to afford it but because of illness or other reason to lose everything.
If they were planning on the number of 4 or 5 or 6 and could barely support those they had I think you have a point, but want a second child is not unreasonable or selfish.
And I do not want to be rude, but you call the friendly people of yours, but I think you're not a good friend to be judgmental - you should be supporting their decision. If you are really interested, then help them.
Nope. Maybe they want their children near the same age together. If everyone waited until they could afford the children, there would be only 100,000 born each year (there are 4 million euros). An additional child does not cost that much unless you are not particularly frugal. The average family spends more than $ 5,000 the first year on the baby. Heck, I can do with less than $ 1,000, including health insurance ($ 88/mo). Having more would be a problem, however.
People on the next block had already planned their FIV when he lost his job. Should he stop when she took all the injections? Is this irresponsible?
its really clean, but Medicis everyone there own feelings about it I think it would be wrong because if they are dealing with 1 2 will be even worse. but if thats what they want, so nobody can argue.
Each to their own, love and stability are the things children need to grow up right, not a great house.If they were the opposite sex the same, they can share a room, no problem!
To say that if they are having difficulty getting the baby No. 1, they really should wait until they are financially better before saddled with another mouth to feed.
there were 6 of us in a small house with 3 bedrooms 5 girls in 1 room 2 bunk beds and a single with no room for many other things that my parents had no money for us fabric or anything we all went to uni all work.
Posted on October 5, 2010.