Don Gardner House Plans

Adult Children of Parental Alienation Syndrome
Experience real life
Before diving into the nitty gritty of Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS), the context is in order. My mother and my father has borderline NDP. They went through a horrible divorce that lasted more than a decade, the cost of tens of thousands of dollars each, and tragically, my brother and I used as pawns. I'm always looking and reading on subjects that will help further my knowledge, increase my accuracy, and continue to validate my experience throughout my parents. With research and reading, I came across another "a-ha" about that hit my socks. Before going into details, I want to see my background in relation to this matter.

I was born to my mother and my biological father. When I was a few months, my mother divorced and married his high school sweetheart. His high school sweetheart (dad) adopted me and my baby album and baby book have both been altered to completely erase my biological father. My paternal grandparents were organic told to come one day and say goodbye to me forever. Absolutely no evidence of the birth of my father stayed. No words were spoken about this birth father - until my mother needed information to use.

My mother had an affair with my dad's friend, and later, my mother and father divorced in the late 70s. During the visit with my mother one weekend when I lived with my father, she announces that she can not get a hold of my birth father - OUT OF THE BLUE. I was taken back by the question but curious. I remember the concept of entertainment, and we did talk about him for a phone call. After that, I had no interest to talk to him again. Little I knew, my mother has used this information - I have been in contact with my birth father - to hurt my father. She fled the information, make sure he has discovered. Over the years, she tried to use my natural father and his family as a weapon when it sees fit.

On the other hand, my father during the divorce would go through the things my mother and told my brother and me all sorts of nonsense from my mother, who we really afraid of bits. He showed us the book, "The sensual woman" and told us that our mother was addicted to sex. He showed us his incense burner and said it was a drug user. He had a detective Private after my mother and we children, who take photos using flash in the middle of the night to scare us. He called the police, the night after sneaking out of the window area and see my brother and I play with my mother and her boyfriend (my ex-friend dad). He reported to police that my brother and I fight.

My father asked me to report on current activity at home, such as who came to the house when the cars came and went in the night, and what my mother used repeatedly. I look on my way to walk to school and crying about how he could not live without my brother and me and how he wants my brother and me to live with him. On hearing his words and seeing my dad cry was more than I could handle and I was deeply troubled.

My brother and I ended moving into the apartment of my father. Meanwhile, we were so freaked out about our mother that we have refused to visit him to decorate the Christmas tree. We had argued in a corner of his apartment, making us feel guilty and afraid to leave to go with it. Ultimately, he called and canceled the visit with her.

Sudden, my mother left the house while my brother and I moved into the apartment of my father. My dad was a great spectacle of the situation, have neighbors on "patrol". They were appointed posts and lookouts, and my brother and I were totally stressed over the whole situation. Dad even came to us at a time in a frantic state.